tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30736342177214810712024-03-05T20:56:13.288+02:00Mengejar CintaMuAlangkah senangnya kalau Engkau redha,meski semua manusia membenci. Wahai penyembuh hati dan muara pengharapan,wujudkan kasih dan kerinduanku pada diriMu...Dr. Nur Farah Aisyahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00093158603827773505noreply@blogger.comBlogger152125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3073634217721481071.post-72311669486799383052015-06-01T01:38:00.003+02:002015-06-01T01:41:52.133+02:00Suatu Hari Nanti<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Suatu Hari Nanti</span><br />
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Suatu hari akan ada seseorang yang cukup baik budinya untuk membuat tertarik. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Cukup luas hatinya untuk tempatmu tinggal. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Cukup bijaksana pikirannya untuk kamu ajak bicara. </span><br />
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Kamu tidak perlu menjadi orang lain untuk mempertahankan seseorang, tetap jadilah diri sendiri. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Kamu pun tidak (dan jangan) menuntut orang lain menerima keadaanmu bila ia memang tidak mampu menerimanya. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Karena yang baik belum tentu tepat. </span><br />
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Orang baik itu banyak sekali dan hanya ada satu yang tepat. Selebihnya hanyalah ujian. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Kamu tidak pernah tahu siapa yang tepat sampai datang hari akad. Tetaplah jaga diri selayaknya menjaga orang yang paling berharga untukmu. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Karena kamu sangat berharga untuk seseorang yang sangat berharga buatmu nantinya. </span><br />
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Suatu hari akan ada orang yang cukup baik dan cukup luas hatinya untuk kamu tinggali. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Cukup kuat kakinya untuk kamu ajak jalan bersama. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Lebih dari itu, ia mampu menerimamu yang juga serba cukup.</span><br />
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Dr. Nur Farah Aisyahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00093158603827773505noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3073634217721481071.post-20056636943903264742014-11-03T21:05:00.000+02:002014-11-03T22:27:21.585+02:00One Step Closer<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Bismillah.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Lama sungguh tidak menulis di ruangan ini. Pejam celik pejam celik, Alhamdulillah sudah diizinkanNya untuk ke Tahun 5 di sekolah perubatan. Hanya tinggal berbaki kurang lebih 1 tahun 7 bulan sebelum khirij pada Jun 2016 insyaAllah. Subhanallah pantasnya masa berlalu!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Sekarang sudahpun berada di rotation ke 2 daripada 11 rotation pada Tahun 5, Psikiatri selepas sebulan bersama dengan Submajor rotation Family Medicine. Masih ada lagi baki Anesthesiology, Radiology, Forensic, Orthopedics, O&G, ENT, Neurology & Neurosurgery, Dermatology, Opthalmology.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Kata senior, tahun 5 ini adalah tahun bulan madu buat pelajar klinikal - mungkin kerana kepelbagaian rotation dan masa yang singkat bagi setiap rotation (Major 2 bulan, Submajor 1 bulan, Minor 2 minggu) menyebabkan kami tidak sempat merasa bosan.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Setakat ini, memang terasa sungguh bagai berbulan madu,hehe. Masakan tidak, sebulan bersama Family Medicine, kami hanya perlu untuk ke Markaz Sihhi setiap hari, yang jaraknya hanya 10 minit berjalan kaki dari rumah. Ada suatu perasaan bahagia yang tak dapat digambarkan apabila dapat berjalan kaki setiap hari ke sekolah berbanding ke hospital-hospital lain yang agak jauh. Kehadiran juga sangat memberangsangkan berbanding tahun-tahun sebelumnya. Saya akui, saya lebih bersemangat menghadapi tahun 5 ini, mungkin kerana Allah telah menyingkap sedikit demi sedikit keseronokan dan kebahagiaan dalam bidang perubatan ini :)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Sistem pengajian perubatan di JUST secara khususnya terbahagi kepada dua fasa, fasa preklinikal (Tahun 1 hingga Tahun 3) dan fasa preklinikal (Tahun 4-6).</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Secara mudah, semasa di alam preklinikal, kami diajar tentang Basic Science Subjects seperti Anatomy, Physiology, Pathology, Pharmacology, Biochemistry, Epidemiology dan lain-lain, serta Organ Systems seperti Cardiovascular System (CVS), Hematopoietic & Lymphatic System (HLS), Gastrointestinal System (GIS) dan lain-lain. InsyaAllah jika tiada aral berhajat juga untuk menulis sedikit pengalaman sepanjang 4 tahun di zaman preklinikal (saya mengulang tahun 2 sebanyak 2 kali)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Untuk klinikal pula, sistem pembelajaran kami dibahagikan seperti berikut:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Tahun 4: Introduction to Clinical Medicine (1 bulan), Surgery I, Paediatrics I, Internal Medicine I (2 bulan)</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Tahun 5: 1. Major - 2 bulan: O&G</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> 2. Submajor - 1 bulan: Family Medicine, Psychiatry</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> 3. Minor - 2 minggu: Anesthesiology, Radiology, Forensic, </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> Orthopedics, ENT, Neurology & Neurosurgery, Dermatology, </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Tahun 6: Surgery II, Paediatrics II, Internal Medicine II, O&G II, Elective </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Beza antara rotation di Tahun 4 dan Tahun 6 adalah di Tahun 4, kami hanya berfokus pada introduction and pathophysiology of the related disease, manakala di Tahun 6 pula kami sudah perlu menghadap bahagian management pesakit dan penyakit.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Setelah sekian lama meninggalkan dunia blog, mengapa tiba-tiba kembali menulis?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Apabila masuk ke Tahun 5 ini, terasa agak rugi jika pengalaman menarik sepanjang bertemu pesakit tidak direkodkan secara sistematik untuk kenangan masa hadapan. Kata senior, tahun semasa belajar inilah tahun yang terbaik dalam kehidupan seseorang, tidak akan sama ketika di alam kerjaya kelak.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Saya sebenarnya sudah pun mula mencoret beberapa pengalaman ketika di rotation Family Medicine dan Psychiatry di FB, dan saya rasakan ada baiknya untuk saya kumpulkannya di sini.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Dan oh ye, menulis itu sebenarnya adalah satu hobi dan terapi buat saya. Saya sebenarnya bukanlah seorang yang fasih dan mampu menyampaikan sesuatu melalui lisan dengan baik (kecuali setelah berlatih beberapa kali), kekuatan saya adalah melalui tulisan. InsyaAllah, semoga ada manfaatnya melalui coretan-coretan saya disini.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Sehingga itu, Assalamualaikum :)</span>Dr. Nur Farah Aisyahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00093158603827773505noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3073634217721481071.post-27132312870329203922013-11-03T22:23:00.000+02:002014-11-03T22:25:19.570+02:00A re-reflection into medical world<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">It's almost time to rethink and reconsinder seriously about the future.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Why in the first place, you choose to stay on this track?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">While maybe in the first place entering medical world is not something that comes truly from the bottom of your heart - maybe its your parents dream to see you becoming a doctor, maybe just because it happens to be that medicine is the 'best' choice for your good SPM results, or maybe you just took medicine because you yourself doesn't really know what you want in life back then, whatever the reasons are that make you took the first step into medical school, you seriously have to re-reflect back your main reason why you are taking this path.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">After almost 3-4 years in medical school, have you not find the reasons why you choose to stay, even when your heart is not fully in medicine? Do you want to waste another 2-3 years in medical school regretting your choice and keep performing poorly, whether physically in your academics or mentally / emotionally?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Get up and be responsible of your own life and future. No one's gonna care for you, it's you who are going to determine what kind of future that you will embrace ahead. What you choose today, will determine what you will get tomorrow.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">As for me, all of the dozens of reasons to 'why don't I quit', I prefer to make a list of 'why I have to stay'. I'm searching reasons of why am I choosing this very path?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If you cannot get what you like, you gotta like what you get. Be grateful and believe firmly, Allah knows why He puts you in this very position. What's left is for you to search by yourself - why?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Dive into yourself, identify your potentials and weaknesses. Make a good mental image of yourself, the successful you in the future. Rebuild your dreams and hopes, and strive to achieve them. Nurture love in what you do now, develop passion and be patient!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Medical world is surely a long journey. It's a marathon, not a sprint. Keep running along but make sure that you're not burn out during the whole process.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">All the best to you, myself! May Allah eases and blesses your journey in this medical world. You're gonna be great muslimah doctor in the future, just believe in yourself and keep on moving!</span>Dr. Nur Farah Aisyahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00093158603827773505noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3073634217721481071.post-65915193277317760212013-09-29T02:21:00.005+02:002013-09-29T02:21:49.982+02:00This worldly life <br />
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How beautiful, is this worldly life<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />But not a soul shall remain<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />We all come into this world<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />Only to leave it one day<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />I can see that everything around me<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />Rises then fades away<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />Life is just a passing moment<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />Nothing is meant to stay, oh<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" /><br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" /><i style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">[Chorus:]</i><br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />This worldly life has an end<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />And it's then real life begins<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />A world where we will live forever<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />This beautiful worldly life has an end<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />It's a just bridge that must be crossed<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />To a life that will go on forever<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" /><br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />So many years, quickly slipping by<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />Like the Sleepers of the Cave<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />Wake up and make a choice<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />Before we end up in our graves<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />O God! You didn't put me here in vain<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />I know I'll be held accountable for what I do<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />This life is just a journey<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />And it's taking me back to You<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" /><br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" /><i style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">[Chorus:]</i><br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />This worldly life has an end<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />And it's then real life begins<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />A world where we will live forever<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />This beautiful worldly life has an end<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />It's a just bridge that must be crossed<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />To a life that will go on forever<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" /><br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />So many get caught in this beautiful web<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />Its gardens become an infatuation<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />But surely they'll understand at the final stop<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />That its gardens are meant for cultivation, oh<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" /><br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" /><i style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">[Chorus:]</i><br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />This worldly life has an end<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />And it's then real life begins<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />A world where we will live forever<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />This beautiful worldly life has an end<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />It's a just bridge that must be crossed<br style="border: 0px none; font-size: 1em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />To a life that will go on forever</div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; line-height: 18px;">"All human beings will suffer emotionally traumatizing experience. </span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; line-height: 18px;">This particular ayah for me, is an ayah of great hope, because when people get scarred, people get emotionally damage, then they feel that they will never ever be recovere</span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; display: inline; line-height: 18px;">d and move on with life again.<br /><br />Musa's mother, had the colossal test of taking her baby and putting the baby in the water. That is not even an imaginable thing a mother can do.<br /><br />Musa's mother's heart was emptied out.<br /><br />And Allah said, "And the heart of Moses' mother became empty [of all else]. She was about to disclose [the matter concerning] him had We not bound fast her heart that she would be of the believers." [Al-Qasas 28:10]<br /><br />He calm her heart down and brought it to the normal state.<br /><br />We as human beings don't have the ability to emotionally recover sometimes, but we're learning in this ayah that Allah has the ability to let it heals and move on.<br /><br />Imaan (faith in Allah) is enough for you to be able to move on with your life. Allah will intervene into our emotional states.<br /><br />Whatever emotional trauma you are going through, know that Allah can intervene and give you peace of mind, peace of heart. And He can give you tranquility again.<br /><br />Whatever things that have scarred you, Allah can remove that scar entirely.<br /><br />I pray that you are able to ask Allah for that genuine removal of scar and that Allah gives you that firmness of heart so you can be from those who truly believe and can live a healthy spiritual and emotional life."<br /><br />- Nouman Ali Khan, Quranic Gems Juz 20 ♥ :')</span></span><br />
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Dr. Nur Farah Aisyahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00093158603827773505noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3073634217721481071.post-36407669564327048342013-07-18T03:03:00.002+02:002013-07-18T03:03:43.210+02:00Marriage, Tempations & Responsibilities<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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جزاك اللهُ خيراً for your question. My advice is that you learn to eat grass. If you marry someone without an income, that is what you will need to be able to do at some point. Sorry to be rude – but as George Bernard Shaw said, ‘You must never be afraid to offend people because that is the only time that they listen.’ So I hope you are offended and can wake up from the hormone induced dream that you are in before it turns into a nightmare.</div>
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For a man to be suitable to marry, you must look for three things:</div>
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<strong style="color: #333333;">1. How is his Deen?</strong></div>
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· Is he on the Shari’ah and Sunnah?<br />· Is he particular to avoid the doubtful things? (Does he eat doubtful chickens and drink Coke/Pepsi?)<br />· How are his manners? Not to you – but to all around him.<br />· Is he argumentative and combative about everything? Is he an auto-refuter?<br />· Is he kind and considerate to those weaker than him? Does he thank the waiter and the doorman?<br />· Is there a smile on his face or a frown? Does he have a sense of humor?<br />· Is he smart? Does he read more than comics? Can you have a serious, sensible conversation with him?<br />· Is his brain bigger than his biceps? (If he proposed to you without an income, I seriously doubt that it is)<br />· Is his language that of inclusion or exclusion – looking down on others who he considers as not so good Muslims as himself?<br />· Does he praise more or criticize more? Is he forgiving of others or eager to expose their faults?<br />· How particular is he about avoiding Haraam (Sorry to point out, but if he was having conversations with you without a Mahram, he and you were already indulging in Haraam)?</div>
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<strong style="color: #333333;">2. Can he support himself?</strong></div>
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· How? Not dreams and smooth talk – but actual nuts and bolts. Here and now?<br />· Has he completed his education? How much longer will that take?<br />· Will his family support this marriage of yours until he can get a job (lousy situation to be in but better than eating grass)?<br />· What is his profession and how soon can he get a job?<br />· What kind of income does he have today and what can he look forward to?<br />· Is that enough to support you and your family?</div>
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Believe me, today you may think that you can live on love and sunshine but I doubt that you can pay your rent with sunshine. Neither will sunshine buy you bread – that’s why I said that you may like to start eating grass because that is free and maybe you can even hire your services out as a walking lawn mower and make some money as well.</div>
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<strong style="color: #333333;">3. How compatible are you with each other and each other’s families?</strong></div>
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· That means that you wake up and ask some basic questions like what do they eat?</div>
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· Where do they come from? Country and culture. Not race. I have seen marriages between Africans and African Americans break up in six months because Africans and African Americans are two different cultures, even though racially they are the same. Race doesn’t matter. Culture does. Difference is not bad. Incompatibility is. And many a time, difference translates as incompatibility.</div>
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· What is the relationship and expectation from the parents in law?</div>
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· How do they live? Are they from a multi-marriage culture where your husband-to-be who can’t resist temptations today will once again not be able to resist temptations and will take unto himself another wife; and perhaps another. So how will you take to that?</div>
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· What kind of financial background do your husband’s family come from? Is there too much of a disparity?</div>
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Finally of all the dumb reasons to marry is to ‘stay out of temptation’. I know I have just put myself in line for the Fatawa of all my ‘strong’ brothers who will strike me down with this and that Hadith. But before I go down, let me say to you, my dear sister, in plain words; What he is saying in effect is that he needs a legal means for sex.</div>
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So what happens when the hormones are not boiling any longer? He’s not marrying you for yourself. He is marrying you for himself. That is the worst reason to get married to anyone for. Believe me and wake up. Or keep sleeping and find out for yourself when the dream turns into a nightmare. After all nightmares are also dreams.</div>
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I will tell you what happens in 9 cases out of 10. When things get too tough and you demand time, attention and money, he will walk away and you will be left holding the baby – quite literally. Then what are you going to do?</div>
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So wake up and answer this questionnaire and if he comes out on top, by all means marry him. If not suggest to him to take cold showers – maybe he should put his bed in the shower – and you focus on your education. You came to the university to study. Not to look at boys. He came to study. Not to look at girls. Concentrate on your education. Get distinction. And go home. And then see what Allah has in store for you in terms of your Rizq – a husband you can look up to and be proud of. A husband who will be proud of you and treat you like a princess – not only during your honeymoon but for all your life.</div>
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I wish you all the best in this world and the next.</div>
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<strong style="color: #333333;">Article by Sheikh Mirza Yawar Baig</strong></div>
Dr. Nur Farah Aisyahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00093158603827773505noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3073634217721481071.post-24487933642238906632013-07-13T22:29:00.000+02:002014-11-03T22:29:56.349+02:00(Psychology) Fasa perkembangan psikososial Erikson 1<div style="-webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: MarkerFelt-Thin; font-size: 18px; line-height: 24px;">
Alhamdulillah summer sem ini diizinkan untuk mengambil subjek Behavioral Science / Psychology. Subhanallah, sangat menarik! insyaAllah nak share sedikit sebanyak apa yang telah dipelajari :)</div>
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Human Development Theory - Erikson's stages of psychosocial development</div>
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Menurut Erikson, terdapat 8 fasa dalam perkembangan psikososial seseorang yang akan mempengaruhi personalitinya. Setiap fasa adalah kritikal, dan perlu diberi perhatian sewajarnya oleh para ibu bapa terutamanya ketika perkembangan anak-anak mereka.</div>
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Jom kita tengok apa fasa-fasa tersebut :)</div>
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1) Trust vs Mistrust (Birth - 2 years)</div>
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Ketika ini bayi mula belajar soal harapan. Mereka akan bergantung sepenuhnya kepada ibu bapa untuk kelangsungan hidup dan keselesaan.</div>
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Oleh itu penting pada fasa ini untuk ibu bapa memberikan perhatian dan kasih sayang yang cukup, kerana ia akan membuatkan si anak melihat dunia sebagai sebuah tempat yang boleh dipercayai.</div>
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Kegagalan ibu bapa untuk membekalkan persekitaran yang 'selamat' serta memenuhi keperluan asasi anak akan menyebabkan anak hilang rasa percaya, yang seterusnya akan mengakibatkan kekecewaan, curiga, memencilkan diri dan kirang keyakinan diri (paranoid personality)</div>
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2) Autonomy vs Shame & Doubt (2-4 years)</div>
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Autonomi: kemahiran dan perasaan bertanggungjawab dan dapat menguasai diri sendiri.</div>
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Pada fasa ini, kanak-kanak akan mula belajar untuk melakukan semuanya sendiri tanpa bantuan orang lain. Mereka ketika ini sangat suka untuk meneroka dunia dan sentiasa belajar tentang dunia sekeliling. Mereka ingin memakai baju sendiri, makan menggunakan tangan atau sudu, menggunakan tandas tanpa bantuan dan sebagainya.</div>
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Kesabaran dan galakan dari ibu bapa akan membantu anak-anak untuk memupuk sifat autonomi ini. Jika tidak, anak-anak akan membina sifat ragu-ragu tentang keupayaan dirinya sendiri.</div>
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Jadi, jika anda mempunyai anak pada usia ini, galakkan mereka untuk melakukan aktiviti harian mereka tanpa bantuan, dan jangan dihalang saintis muda ini apabila mereka ber-eksperimen. Yang penting para ummi dan abi kena sabar lah ye bila anak-anak mereka sepahkan rumah, pecahkan barang dan conteng dinding. Kan rumah adalah medan untuk para ulama cilik itu membesar dan belajar? ;)</div>
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4) Industry vs Inferiority (5-12 years)</div>
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5) Identity vs Role Confusion (13-19 years)</div>
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6) Intimacy vs Isolation (20-40 years)</div>
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7) Generativity vs Stagnation (40-64 years)</div>
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8) Integrity vs Despair (Late adulthood, 65-death)</div>
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</span><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Mari bersama belajar menyuburkan rasa cinta buat permata hati kita, yang telah banyak berkorban dan membesarkan kita selama ini dengan penuh cinta dan kasih sayang. Semoga Allah merahmati kedua ibu bapa kita di dunia dan akhirat.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1. <b>Bersikap hormat dalam keadaan apa jua emosi sekalipun</b>. Munkin kita pernah marah, pernah kecewa, tetapi perasaan itu sebaik-baiknya tidak mengurangkan rasa hormat kita kepada kedua-dua ibu bapa kita. Tetap tenang dan tetap bijak menjaga emosi dengan baik.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">2. <b>Jangan membantah apabila ada pendapat yang berbeza</b>. Pendapat perlu disampaikan dengan cara yang halus dan sopan, bukan dengan keras. Beza generasi, beza usia, beza pengalaman membuatkan ruang perbezaan semakin luas. Jangan bersikap kasar dengan mengeluarkan perkataan yang tidak sopan. Tetaplah menjaga etika dengan mereka.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">3. <b>Bagaimana sekalipun perasaan kita pada masa itu, jangan berteriak, membentak, bersauar dan bernada keras dalam berbicara dengan ibu bapa</b>. Ya, memang sangat susah mengendalikan emosi ketika marah, tetapi cubalah lakukan dengan baik. Insya Allah, semuanya dapat diatasi dengan baik.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">4. <b>Meminta izin dan mencium tangan ibu bapa sebelum pergi atau selepas pulang.</b> Kita menerapkan hal ini berdasarkan apa yang ibu bapa kita ajarkan sewaktu kita masih kecil dahulu. Kita pasti dapat merasakan kesan positif hasil tabiat ini.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">7. <b>Jangan sekali-kali menyampuk perbicaraan ibu bapa</b>. Ini etika asas yang mesti difahami dengan betul. Jika etika ini kita terus lakukan sehingga dewasa, ini akan menjadi nilai yang baik. Kita tahu bila sepatutnya bercakap dan bila kita perlu memerhati dengan baik. Kebolehan mendengar dan memerhati dengan baik jarang dimiliki kebanyakan orang. Sebahagian besar orang hanya pandai dalam hal percakapan, tetapi cukup runsing apabila perlu mendengar dengan baik percakapan orang lain.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">8. <b>Mengutamakan atau mendahulukan ibu bapa dalam segala aktiviti</b> seperti memberikan tempat duduk, memulakan makan minum dan sebagainya. Akhlaq ini jarang kita dapati pada jiwa anak muda hari ini.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">11. <b>Apabila melihat ibu bapa dalam kesusahan seperti mengangkat beban berat dan mengerjakan pekerjaan berat lain, tanpa diminta kita sepatutnya segera membantu.</b></span> <br />
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Selamat pulang ke pangkuan keluarga tercinta di Malaysia buat sahabat-sahabat mahasiswa mahasiswi di Jordan. Semoga kita dapat menyantuni serta berkhidmat dengan penuh setia dan cinta buat kedua ibu bapa tercinta kita.</span><br />
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Mungkin dulu kita banyak berdosa dengan mereka, melukai mereka tanpa sedar, justeru kepulangan ini mohonlah ampun dengan mereka dari segala kesalahan-kesalahan kita.</span><br />
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Mungkin selama ini kita hanya melayan mereka biasa-biasa sahaja, 'taking them for granted', maka selama masih ada peluang ini berikan layanan yang terbaik, hargai mereka sehingga mereka terasa merekalah insan yang paling istimewa dalam hidup kita.</span><br />
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Mungkin sebelum ini kita kurang arif tentang adab dan seni meraikan ibu bapa, tidak ada ilmu untuk menjadi anak yang soleh menurut acuan Islam, atau tidak punya kesedaran, tetapi kini kita sudah tahu, mahu dan mampu membahagiakan mereka, maka praktikkanlah.</span><br />
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Manfaatkan detik berharga bersama mereka, dan raihlah kebahagiaan, keberkatan, pahala serta keredhaan berpanjangan dariNya :)</span><br />
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Pulanglah, dan sayangi keluargamu!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">You are beautiful when your strength and determination shines as you follow your own path – when you aren't disheveled by the obstacles along the way. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Collect up a group of similar activities and do them all at the same time. This is the main principle behind batching. You could collect up all your e-mail answering, household chores, reading assignments or phone calls and do them at one time.</span></span></div>
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<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>It reduces start-up and slow-down time</strong>. The time it takes to load your e-mail inbox might not seem like much, but it adds up over time. Even worse is the mental delay it takes to switch from doing one type of task to another.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>It reduces daily clutter</strong>. Instead of having seven individual writing times throughout my week I only have two. Instead of having several scans of my inbox each day, I have one. Instead of doing my assignments in pieces, I do them in one session.</span></span></li>
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Here are some things you can consider batching in your life to save time, stress and achieve meditative productivity:</span></span></div>
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<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>E-Mail</strong>. Tim Ferriss, author of the 4-Hour Workweek, claims he received over 300 e-mails per hour during the high point of his book’s bestseller climb. Despite this, he answers e-mail once per day. What’s your excuse?</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Reading</strong>. Compress your textbook or self-education reading into one or two batches per week.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Blogging</strong>. Make use of your blogging platform’s timestamp feature. This post was ready to go days before it went live. You can still batch and keep up a regular posting rate.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Phone Calls</strong>. Keep a list of all the people you need to call and empty it once per day. Doing your calls in one batch will give you more freedom and help you pick the times of the day where people are least busy.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Entertainment</strong>. Batch all your leisure time at the end of the day. This motivates you to get your work finished early and gives you a chance to really relax instead of just procrastinate.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Assignments</strong>. Whenever I need to write an essay or work on a project, I try to do it in one sitting. This can mean spending several hours one day working on a single assignment. But this saves the endless guilt and procrastination to finish.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Computer Work</strong>. Batch all your computer work into part of the day and go wireless for the rest.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Magazine/Article Reading</strong>. Do you get several subscriptions? Read through them all at one time and get them off your coffee table.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Cleaning</strong>. Do all your cleaning-related chores at one time during the day and week.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Shopping/Errands</strong>. Cut down on gas usage and do all your grocery shopping, dry cleaning and visits to the post office at one time.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Cooking</strong>. No time to prepare proper meals? Set aside a few hours Sunday to cook quick meals for the week.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Classes</strong>. Arrange to place all your classes back-to-back instead of having long spares.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Free Time</strong>. Compress your work onto six days and give yourself the seventh off. How you define “work” is up to you. Generally if it goes on your to-do list, it’s work. I restrict my day off from school, this website and Toastmaster/speaking duties, but your to-don’t list will vary.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Thinking</strong>. Do you ever have an hour or two of uninterrupted thinking time each week? If you don’t, get into the habit of doing a thorough weekly review. Often I come up with most the article ideas I’ll write the next week during this time.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Planning</strong>. Set aside several hours to plan out your next big goal or idea. Planning in bits and pieces is the best way to ensure you never start.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Sleep</strong>. Are you a chronic napper? Although Thomas Edison might disagree with me here, I’m a believer in sleeping only once each day. The side-effect of this is that you need to make sure you get enough sleep when you do.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Repairs</strong>. Batch together all those little tasks you’ve been meaning to do but haven’t had time. Fix the doorknob to your bathroom, clear out the medicine cabinet or replace the burnt-out bulb on your lamp.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Social Contact</strong>. Cut down on the impersonal, online communication and meet people in person. If you get your social fix from a computer screen, you’ll probably end up cutting back on real communication time.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Productivity System</strong>. Batch all your to-do lists, inboxes and forms into one convenient location.</span></span></li>
<li style="list-style: decimal outside; margin: 7px 0px 8px 10px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>Information Tracking</strong>. Whether it’s your stock picks or website stats, it’s easy to get obsessed over the numbers. I only track that information once per week, with my income tracking only once per month. Batching your measurements ensures you stay focused on the big picture, not daily fluctuations.</span></span></li>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 12.727272033691406px;">"Those who cannot tolerate your worst do not deserve your best"</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 12.727272033691406px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 12.727272033691406px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 12.727272033691406px;">Ahli Bayt tercinta, tulang belakang saya sepanjang kembara di bumi urdun ini. Mereka lah yang mengetahui sisi nakal, comot, buruk saya, tetapi tetap setia bersama. Dalam suka dan duka, mereka sentiasa ada disisi, menjadi saksi perubahan diri dalam meniti hari-hari dewasa.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 12.727272033691406px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 12.727272033691406px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 12.727272033691406px;">Mereka bukan hanya sekadar teman dan sahabat, tetapi sudah di</span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; line-height: 12.727272033691406px;">anggap sebagai sebahagian dari jantung hati dan darah daging saya.<br /><br />Uhibbukunna fillah! Semoga Allah mencintai kalian lebih dari cintanya aku kepada kalian. Dan semoga kalian sentiasa bahagia dibawah limpahan rahmat dan hidayahNya.<br /><br />Selamanya di hati - Casa Solehah ♥<br /><br />*ni kalau tatap lepas grad, mahu nangis sorang-sorang sebab rindu. Sekarang ni pun dah sebak kalau pikir macam mana keadaan bila diorang balik nanti,wuuu T_T</span></span>Dr. Nur Farah Aisyahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00093158603827773505noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3073634217721481071.post-14830354686980671462012-12-26T19:20:00.001+02:002013-01-02T15:10:52.057+02:00Belajar Gaya Salafus Soleh<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Mungkin jarang antara kita yang tidak tahu tips-tips belajar daripada 'salafus soleh' terdahulu. Semua tahu bukan apa itu berkat?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Sesuatu yang tidak boleh dilihat, tetapi dengan berkat itu, kita boleh berasa tenang dan bahagia sentiasa walaupun separuh dunia berada di bahu kita.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1) Sebelum belajar, niat bahawa aku belajar ini kerana Allah S.W.T.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Setiap kali mahu keluar bilik untuk pergi kuliah, sentiasa ingatkan diri, aku menuntut ilmu ni kerana Allah S.W.T. Banyak kelebihan bagi orang yang menuntut ilmu.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Jangan rasa tertekan jika kelas bermula seawal jam lapan pagi dan habisnya pula dalam pukul lima petang. Tetapi fikir bahawa sepanjang proses menuntut ilmu ini, Malaikat akan sentiasa mendoakan kita. Jadi, kita tidak akan rasa terlalu tertekan jika kelas itu tersangatlah lama.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Setiap kali mahu study, mesti baca satu muka surat al-Quran sebelum bermula waktu study itu. Jadi, pasti kita tidak tinggalkan al-Quran walau sesibuk mana pun kita. Ustazah ada cerita satu kisah yang sangat memberi inspirasi.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Ada seorang budak perempuan di Arab Saudi yang mayatnya tidak hancur, walaupun sudah lebih dua tahun dia meninggal dunia. Ramai yang pelik kerana budak itu masih kecil, dalam umur 15 tahun. Jadi, ada yang pergi pada kedua ibu bapa budak itu dan bertanya, apakah amalan budak perempuan ini.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Ibunya menjawab, saya tidak tahu apa yang istimewa anak saya lakukan, cuma saya tahu dia sangat menjaga al-Quran. Setiap kali sebelum belajar, dia pasti akan baca satu muka surat ayat-ayat al-Quran, memang tidak pernah tinggal. Jadi, budak sekecil ini pun boleh baca satu muka surat setiap kali sebelum belajar, kita yang besar panjang ini mustahil tidak mampu bukan? Orang yang hebat tidak akan memberi alasan, tetapi dia sentiasa cari jalan.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Apaila kita rasa tertekan kerana berkali-kali sudah membaca topik tersebut, tetapi tetap tidak faham, dan akhirnya, kita rasaputus asa dan terus tutup buku. Dan yang lebih bahaya, mind setting akan mengatakan topik ini sangat susah dan tidak menarik. Akhirnya, kita tinggalkan terus topik itu hingga akhirnya kelam kabut waktu menjelang peperiksaan.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Jadi, apa kata kita cuba tips daripada 'salafus soleh' terdahulu. Apabila ada sesuatu yang menghalang fokus, mereka pergi perbaharui wudhuk dan solat sunat dua rakaat.Jika kita seperti ini, sekurang-kurangnya dapat perbaharui wudhuk sudah memadai.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Part paling penting! Apabila sedang khusyuk study, tiba-tiba azan berkumandang. Berhentilah sebentar untuk menyahut seruan Allah S.W.T. Tidak lama pun solat ini. Jadikan ia sebagai terapi diri selepas penat belajar. Imam Ghazali ada mengatakan bahawa:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">"Orang yang menyahut seruan azan dengan serta merta meninggalkan segala urusan untuk menunaikan solat berjema'ah, di akhirat kelak, dia akan dijemput oleh Allah S.W.T dengan penuh lemah-lembut dan menjadi tetamu-Nya."</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I was not a conscientious Muslim. As I entered my freshman year of high school, I had one very specific goal which I was determined to accomplish: to become popular. “Piety” was not consistent with this goal – at least not in my perspective. It was for this reason that I expressed disdain when my dad announced we would be undertaking the religious journey to Mecca in the summer following my freshman year of high school. I recall telling a friend, “Man, I’m scared. I don’t want to change!” I knew people went to Mecca and then became super religious. I didn’t want that to happen to me.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As we entered the Grand Mosque, my dad told my mom, my brother, and me to keep our eyes down until we reached the opening of the Masjid, until we were in a space which would allow for our first glimpse of the House of Allah, the <em>Ka’ba</em>, to be in our full view. As we walked through the halls of the Grand Mosque, I heard my mom and dad crying. I knew this was supposed to be a spiritual experience. I could see that they were going through something incredible, but I felt nothing. I felt absolutely nothing. Finally, we approached steps which led to a great opening. At this point, my dad instructed, “Look up.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">ALLAH! In that moment, my vision was suddenly filled with the beloved <em>Ka’ba</em>. As if awakened from the dead, as if beating for the first time, my heart was immediately gripped indescribably. It suddenly filled with this unexplainable, fully tangible presence of the Creator of the Universe. I began to bawl; I was struck with the realization that this feeling, this closeness to God, could only happen because He truly exists. I began to regret all I had done and all the time I had wasted; I began circumambulating the <em>Ka’ba</em>, weeping, begging Allah <em>subhanahu wa ta`ala </em>(exalted is He) to forgive me.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When we returned to America, I had difficulty maintaining my spiritual awakening. I decided that I would begin to read the Qur’an. I reasoned that I could watch hours of television a day and so, at the very least, I had an obligation to read at least five pages a day. I hadn’t touched the Qur’an in years. I’m not Arab, I was not raised knowing Arabic; I had just learnt how to read the letters when joined together when I was really young, like many Muslim children. I hadn’t practiced reading Arabic in so many years that I was painfully slow at it; reading five pages easily turned into an hour ordeal, if not longer. I didn’t understand anything I read, but I kept trying.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">One day, my mom passed by my room and suggested, “Maryam, why don’t you read it in <a href="http://www.suhaibwebb.com/islam-studies/10-tips-to-becoming-one-of-allahs-special-people/#" id="_GPLITA_0" in_rurl="http://i.trkjmp.com/click?v=Sk86Mjk5NTc6Mjg6ZW5nbGlzaDo3MWRhYjA0YTEzY2UwN2MxZTY0NmVkYzc1YmViYTcwYzp6LTEzMzUtMTAzMTg3Ond3dy5zdWhhaWJ3ZWJiLmNvbToyNjAwMDo0NWE5OTlmMWM3NjRkOWMwYWUzYzZhZmQ1MGFkZDg3Mg" style="border-bottom-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #154a7f; font-weight: 700;" title="Click to Continue > by Browse to Save">English</a>? At least then you’ll understand what you’re reading.” To me, this was a lucrative suggestion; I was a really fast reader in English. If I read half the page in English and half of it in Arabic, it’d take much less time to get through five pages a day.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I began and I transformed. Reading the Qur’an in English and being able to come to an understanding of what its message conveyed captivated me. I began to change internally and it slowly took hold of my external being; my thoughts, my intentions, my actions… I slowly began to internalize a conscientiousness that revolutionized my life. I was mesmerized by the Qur’an and it was then that I decided I would undertake memorizing it.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It took me over seven years to memorize the Qur’an. In the time span that I spent memorizing, I had other responsibilities simultaneously. I was either studying or working full time (or a combination of both), I was the president or lead figure of an organization or community work, and I had familial responsibilities. The only time I was able to focus almost completely on the Qur’an was when I moved to Egypt for eleven months, in which I dedicated about two hours a day to memorization while I also studied Arabic and did Arabic homework for about seven hours of the day. However, the majority of the memorization occurred in America, amidst a crazy schedule. I memorized while I had to take care of life responsibilities; you, too, can memorize while taking care of business.</span></div>
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<li style="line-height: 25px; list-style: square; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Why memorize the Qur’an? Because it will give you a constant, incredible, and personally special relationship with The Creator, with The Sustainer, with The One Who has power over all things.</span><ul style="list-style-image: initial; list-style-position: initial; list-style-type: none; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 20px 20px;">
<li style="list-style: square; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">You want the best of both worlds? It’s through the Qur’an. It’s through memorizing, understanding, loving and most importantly, living it. When one is sincere about memorizing it, one needs to be completely aware of the heavy responsibility and glorified honor of living as Allah’s servant and carrying His words in their hearts. This must translate into their actions. The key: Sincerity.</span></li>
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<li style="list-style: square; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The Prophet ﷺ (peace be upon him) taught us, <em> </em>‘The Qur’aan will meet its companion on the Day of Resurrection when his grave is opened for him, in the form of a pale man. It will say to him, ‘Do you recognize me?’ He will say: ‘I do not recognize you.’ It will say: ‘I am your companion the Qur’aan, who kept you thirsty on hot days and kept you awake at night. Every merchant benefits from his business and today you will benefit from your good deeds.’ He will be given dominion in his right hand and eternity in his left, and there will be placed on his head a crown of dignity, and his parents will be clothed with priceless garments the like of which have never been seen in this world. They will say: ‘Why have we been clothed with this?’ It will be said: ‘Because your son used to recite Qur’aan.’ Then it will be said to him: ‘Recite and ascend in the degrees of Paradise,’ and he will continue to ascend so long as he recites, either at a fast pace or a slow pace.’ [Ahmad, Ibn Majah]</span></li>
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<li style="list-style: square; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Allah Most High says in a <em>Hadith Qudsi </em>(record containing the words of God), “When my servant takes one step towards Me, I take ten steps towards him. When my servant comes walking towards me, I come running towards him.” Recognize that you are not alone; that it is the One Who revealed these words Who will help you learn and retain them. The struggle must begin with the servant, but the Lord is the One Who will continually open the way and aid you through the struggle.</span></li>
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<li style="line-height: 25px; list-style: square; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Wait, what? You don’t understand Arabic? Wait, what? You aren’t Arab? Wait, you’re Arab, but your <em>tajweed </em>(rules of recitation/pronunciation) is really off?</span><ul style="list-style-image: initial; list-style-position: initial; list-style-type: none; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 20px 20px;">
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<li style="list-style: square; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When I first decided I would commit to memorizing, I found a teacher and told her I was ready. But I had never studied <em>tajweed</em> and my recitation was completely incorrect! She asked me, “Do you want to memorize, or do you want to memorize correctly? There is no point in memorizing it wrong and then having to go back and do it all over again.”</span></li>
<li style="list-style: square; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The most difficult test I came across with memorizing the Qur’an was not being able to find a consistent teacher. This sometimes led to many months of not memorizing anything and only working on review. When I didn’t find a teacher, I turned to friends who could help me with my <em>tajweed</em> and we became Qur’an buddies. On campus, over the phone, in cars in random parking lots, in-between running from one meeting to another, we would recite to one another and we would keep each other in check until we were able to find teachers. A teacher (or if you can’t find one, a Qur’an buddy) is CRITICAL to progress with the Qur’an.</span></li>
<li style="list-style: square; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">One of the best things that has ever happened to me in my entire life, all praise and thanks be to God, was being blessed with the Qur’an teacher that helped me so immensely through my memorization: Shaykh Moheb. I learned love for the Qur’an, commitment to the Qur’an, a life of gratitude and incredible contentment because of the Qur’an and a balanced perspective through the Qur’an from him. Seeing I was not Arab and was trying to memorize the Qur’an correctly, he took it upon himself to see me through it. May God bless his family in both worlds. I made <em>du`a’</em> (supplication)(fervently) for a teacher like this for many years and was blessed with more than for what I made <em>du`a’</em>, but it took patience and continual struggle until I was rewarded with a teacher of such caliber. Seek the best teacher you can find and if they are not there, keep making <em>du`a’</em> for one and work through other avenues.</span></li>
<li style="list-style: square; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Use technology to assist you; to help practice your <em>tajweed</em> and help you memorize, there are a number of resources dedicated to those who want to memorize the Qur’an. If you have ever used one, please feel free to share what has worked for you!</span></li>
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<li style="line-height: 25px; list-style: square; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In every prayer, in every moment of prostration<em>, </em>between every <em>athan</em> (call to prayer) and <em>iqama </em>(call to begin prayer), ask God to make us of the <em>Ahlul Qur’an </em>(the people of the Qur’an), those whom the Prophet ﷺ taught, “The people of the Qur’an are <em>the people of Allah</em> and His special servants,” (An-Nisa’i). Realize you are not alone. There are some <em>du`a’</em> I began making seven years ago and they only have started to manifest six or seven years after I started making them rigorously. There will be times one might want to give up, one might feel like there’s no progress, one might feel like everyone else is finishing so quickly, so easily, and that nothing is clicking. Wait. Be patient. Keep working and keep making <em>du`a’</em>. Soon, everything will open because of your sincerity , work and <em>du`a’</em> and when it does, every second of the struggle is so much sweeter and so much more worth it.</span></li>
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<li style="line-height: 25px; list-style: square; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It can be more difficult to memorize if one has no clue what the meaning of the verses are. If one does not understand the language of the Qur’an, make sure to also keep a translation close by to read from it to contextualize the verses and pick up on the meaning.</span></li>
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<li style="line-height: 25px; list-style: square; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When one experiences extra difficulty in memorizing or has just finished a great portion, give some small financial or action-based charity and ask Allah (swt) to accept it for the Qur’an; ask Allah <em>subhanahu wa ta’ala</em> fervently for<em>tawfiq</em> (success), for sincerity, and for a love life with His Words.</span></li>
<li style="line-height: 25px; list-style: square; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The Qur’an is special and it does not “need” us. We need the Qur’an to guide us and to enrich our lives. The Qur`an isn’t going to just come to anyone who attempts to memorize it, then leaves it, then attempts it, then leaves it. It also doesn’t just easily lend itself to individuals who knowingly commit sins and persist in those sins without regret and without seeking to change. As one Shaykh taught, “The Qur’an is <em>Aziz </em>(dear, noble, venerated). If you don’t want to be with it or memorize it, then it’s not going to ‘wait around’ for you.” You want to be special to the Qur’an? Work for it through your righteous actions when you’re not working with it directly.</span></li>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Similarly, beginning the memorization of the Qur’an seems difficult. One verse, two verses, may take a long time to memorize correctly; getting the pronunciation down perfectly may take years, remembering the order of the words may be a frustrating task. However, when one commits to it and makes it a part of their daily responsibilities, it becomes easier and easier. The two verses that took an hour to memorize will turn into the memorization of one entire page in fifteen minutes.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The Qur’an is easy and The One Who revealed the Qur`an tells us, “And We have certainly made the Qur’an easy for remembrance, so is there any who will remember?” (Qur`an, <a href="http://quran.com/54/17" style="border-bottom-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #154a7f; font-weight: 700; text-decoration: initial;">54:17</a>). It just takes dedication, commitment and time. Even if it takes you, as it took me, seven years, ten years, fifteen years, imagine being able to say, “I had a seven-year memorization relationship with the Qur’an and the quality of my life improved in every second. Now that I’m finished, an incredibly exciting chapter of our long-term, eternal relationship is about to begin!”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We all seek for our hearts to be in a state of contentment, tranquility and ease. Allah <em>subhanahu wa ta’ala</em> tells us, “Those who believe, and whose hearts find rest in the remembrance of Allah, verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest,” (Qur‘an, <a href="http://quran.com/13/28" style="border-bottom-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #154a7f; font-weight: 700; text-decoration: initial;">13: 28</a>).</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The best form of remembrance is that of the Qur`an. Will you allow your heart to find rest through it?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Semoga Allah merezekikan kita semua dengan ikhlas dan itqan dalam menuntut ilmuNya ini. </span></div>
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<br />Dr. Nur Farah Aisyahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00093158603827773505noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3073634217721481071.post-82683196130717934992012-12-19T16:29:00.000+02:002012-12-19T16:29:31.228+02:00Ikhlas<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 17px;">Teruskanlah memberi meski keikhlasan itu masih belum bertamu di hati, kerana insyaAllah, kelak pasti Allah akan mengajarkan kepada kita erti ikhlas itu melalui mujahadah kita dalam memberi.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 17px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 17px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 17px;">Mintalah hanya kepada Allah, dan memberilah kepada sesama manusia. Bukankah Islam itu sendiri agama yang mengajar ummatnya untuk memberi? Dan Nabi Muhammad s.a.w itu sendiri diutuskan sebagai rahmat buat sekalian alam.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 17px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 17px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 17px;">Belajarlah dari Baginda. Terlalu banyak yang telah Baginda berikan kepada kita ummatnya, tetapi terlalu sedikit yang Baginda minta dan ambil dari kesenangan dunia, melainkan sekadar memenuhi keperluan sahaja. Sedang kita? Terlalu sedikit memberi tetapi terlalu tamak dan rakus dalam mengejar duniawi, Allahu Allah.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 17px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 17px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 17px;">Mari, kita belajar menjadi hambaNya yang bersyukur :')</span></span>Dr. Nur Farah Aisyahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00093158603827773505noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3073634217721481071.post-27933225652669387972012-12-18T03:39:00.001+02:002012-12-18T03:39:19.640+02:00Trust<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Happiness is contagious. Mahu bahagia? Bahagiakanlah orang-orang disekelilingmu, pasti kebahagiaan akan kau temui :)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Meet my new family members. Along, Angah, Acik, Alang dan Asu. Semoga kasih yang terbina berkekalan hingga ke SyurgaNya.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Semoga Allah merahmati dan memberikan kekuatan kepada adik-adikku ini :)</span><br />
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<br />Dr. Nur Farah Aisyahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00093158603827773505noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3073634217721481071.post-68709313722379710762012-12-15T01:10:00.000+02:002012-12-15T01:10:53.115+02:00Quilling time! :D<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Dewasakini bumi Irbid telah dilanda demam Quilling (haha ayat). Jadi tahukah anda apakah itu Quilling? It's a form of paper arts. Gulung-gulung kertas, gamkan, pastu tepek gulungan-gulungan yang dah siap membentuk suatu bentuk yang menarik (kelingnye ayat =.=')</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> <span style="font-size: xx-small;"><i>Ini hasil kerja <a href="http://miezam.blogspot.com/">quilling</a> tahap dewa dah ni =.=</i></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">AWAS! Quilling ini hanya sesuai untuk mereka yang tekun, gigih, sabar dan bersemangat waja sahaja. Makcik-makcik yang ada lemah jantung , masalah kurang kesabaran atau jenis yang allergic buat benda-benda renyah gini macam saya, lupakan dan silalah cari hobi lain ye,keke</span><br />
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<i style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Hasil-hasil tangan chekgu Nik. Anda haruslah sampai ke tahap ini ye baru boleh jadi tenaga pengajar :D</span></i></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Pagi tadi alhamdulillah berkesempatan join kelas quilling yang dianjurkan oleh HELWI PERMAI. Chekgunya tak lain tak bukan retiss Irbid cik Nik Norkatijah tula,hihi. (sebelum tu meh pakat-pakat like FB page chekgu Nik kita <a href="https://www.facebook.com/Nr3Craft?ref=hl">disini</a> ;)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Seronok sangat! Atleast terisi jugak pagi Jumaat saya. Tapi ternyata Quilling ini bukan lah bidang saya, tangan keras, hasil kerja bersepah-sepah, I'm soooo did not fit into this quilling-thingy. Baik buat benda lain,huhu</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Jadi marilah kita sama-sama mencuci mata melihat hasil gigih akhawat-akhawat yang datang ke kelas Quilling pagi tadi :)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Time cuti nanti nak try buat Quilling lagi sekali insyaAllah, atleast kena balas dendam jugak buat bagi presentable sikit dan tak bolok. Memang cemburu sungguh tengok hasil-hasil tangan <a href="http://miezam.blogspot.com/">Cikgu Namizam</a> tu. How can a man have such a delicate talent??? MashaAllah alaih. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Benarlah, setiap orang tu Allah dah rezekikan kelebihan masing-masing. Apa-apa pun kita sebagai hamba patut bersyukur. Lain syakartum laazidannakum. Syukur syukur syukur dengan segala yang Allah berikan, tak baik jeles-jeles deh adik kakak,huhu.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Jadinya para kakak kakak ibu ibu dan adik adik yang nak mencuba hobi baru bolehlah mencuba buat Quilling ni. Memandangkan sekarang dunia sudah di hujung jari, Google je cara-cara untuk Quilling ni. Bolehla dihadiahkan hasil kraftangan yang cantik molek tu kepada yang tersayang. Silap-silap haribulan boleh bukak perniagaan pulak kan, who knows? Dan paling penting, boleh jadi alat dakwah buat para duat yang kreatif,wink2 ;D</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So, I'm looking forward for next HELWI session every Friday morning. Rasa keperempuanan gitu,hee. Jom sama-sama pakat meriahkan. Majlis ilmu jugak ni, insyaAllah semoga menjadi ilmu yang bermanfaat :)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Nota kaki I: Maaflah post macam campur rojak sesuka hati bahasa baku dan loghat kelantan. Style penulisan pulak sokmo berubah-rubah, sekejap serius, sekajap bajet tsiqoh, sekejap macam euphoria, split personality sunggoh la=.=' Sebab tu nak kenal seseorang jangan hanya judge melalui tulisan sahaja, kena kenal secara holistik. Jadi terimalah seadanya ye? Dan paling penting, be yourself and learn to accept YOU. Tak payah risau sangatlah pandangan manusia, asalkan Allah sudi pandang :)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Nota kaki II: Kita selalu tertarik dengan benda-benda dan orang-orang yang cantik tertarik vavavoom kan? Agak-agaknya lah kan, Allah tertarik tak nak pandang kita dengan keadaan hati kita sekarang ni? Dah cukup cantik tak kita? Atau hanya cantik di mata manusia tapi hodoh di mata Tuhan manusia? Nauzubillahi min zalik T_T</span>Dr. Nur Farah Aisyahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00093158603827773505noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3073634217721481071.post-30786515701390623132012-12-14T03:01:00.001+02:002012-12-14T03:03:29.918+02:00S.P.I.E.S.P<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Nak copy paste kat blog lah, mana tahu mungkin berguna suatu hari nanti kan? :D</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">*mesti kena hentam lagi dengan Nana sebab post tajuk-tajuk macam ni sebab dikatakan 'galok'. Tak pun oke, ilmu yang menarik untuk masa depan ni tau,hee</span><br />
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<span style="color: purple; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 14px;">"9 Disember 2008, jam 9 malam, saya sah bergelar isteri kepada </span><a data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=1265064343" href="https://www.facebook.com/syaariabrahman" style="background-color: white; cursor: pointer; line-height: 14px; text-decoration: initial;">Syaari Ab Rahman</a><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 14px;">. 10 Disember 2008, majlis walimah di rumah saya di Kedah.</span><br style="background-color: white; line-height: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; line-height: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 14px;">Kini, genap 4 tahun semua itu berlalu. Terasa bagaikan semalam peristiwa itu.</span><br style="background-color: white; line-height: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; line-height: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 14px;">Jika rumahtangga kami adalah seorang pelajar universiti, maka usia 4 tahun ini biasanya kami sudah layak mendapat segulung ijazah, bergelar siswazah. Hari ini hari konvokesyennya.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: purple; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Selamat Ulangtahun Perkahwinan yang ke-4 abang! Mohon maaf atas segala kesalahan, mohon halal segala makan minum dan belanja dan terima kasih atas segalanya!</span><br />
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<span style="color: purple; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Moga baitulmuslim ini terus dipilih oleh Allah utk menjadi antara pendokong kuat perjuangan Islam, moga baitul muslim ini terus dilimpahi kasih sayang dan rahmat Allah. Mg zuriat-zuriat dari baitul muslim ini menjadi orang-orang soleh dan bertaqwa.</span><br />
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<span style="color: purple; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Ya Allah, jadikan kami makin dekat denganMu dan makin bertaqwa. Hanya itu kunci kebahagiaan rumahtangga yang hakiki.</span><br />
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Dr. Nur Farah Aisyahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00093158603827773505noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3073634217721481071.post-3736168084225864062012-12-12T19:39:00.002+02:002012-12-12T19:43:21.297+02:00Bagaimana perubatan boleh menjadi ibadah?<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Bagaimana sebenarnya kita membayangkan masa depan dalam hidup ini? Kerjaya apa yang kita inginkan? Sejauhmana kerjaya yang kita ceburi itu dapat memberi kita kepuasan dan kelebihan pada hidup kita?</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Sudah pasti itu adalah beberapa persoalan yang selalu di antara kita fikirkan. Bagi seorang muslim, sudah pasti kita percaya dan yakin bahawa hidup ini terikat dengan tangungjawab kita untuk mengabdikan diri kepada Allah.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><em><span lang="EN-US">“Dan tidaklah Aku ciptakan seluruh jin dan seluruh manusia melainkan untuk beribadah kepadaKu”</span></em><span lang="EN-US"> [Surah Az-Zumar :56]</span></span></div>
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<a name='more'></a><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Dengan itu, semestinyalah kita perlu meyakini bahawa apa sahaja yang kita lakukan di dunia ini akan dikira dan diperhitungkan di akhirat nanti, termasuklah apa sahaja bidang kerjaya yang kita ceburi.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Bagi seorang muslim yang ditentukan oleh Allah untuk menggalas tanggungjawab sebagai seorang doktor perubatan, kita harus meletakkan kerjaya kita itu sebagai salah satu cara dan platform untuk kita mengabdikan diri kepada Allah, atau dalam kata lain, kita perlulah jadikan perubatan itu sebagai ibadah kita kepada Allah.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Bayangkan, jika niat kita ikhlas menjadikan kerjaya perubatan kita sebagai salah satu cara dan wasilah untuk mendapat redha Allah, nescaya tidak akan sia-sialah sebahagian besar umur kita yang dikorbankan untuk perubatan, bermula dari pengajian kita di universiti selama kira-kira 5-6 tahun dan seterusnya dalam bidang kerjaya yang tidak kurang dari 10 tahun pada kebiasaannya.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Namun, persoalannya bagaimana? Bagaimana kita ingin jadikan perubatan sebagai salah satu ibadah kita kepada Allah?</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Para pembaca yang dirahmati Allah,</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Bayangkan betapa bertuahnya seorang doktor kerana dalam kerjayanya, dia berhadapan dengan makhluk yang bernama manusia, yang dikategorikan oleh pencipta sekalian makhluk sebagai ciptaan yang mempunyai sebaik-baik bentuk.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong style="color: #33353a;"><em><span lang="EN-US" style="font-weight: normal;">“Sesungguhnya Kami telah menciptakan manusia dalam bentuk yang sebaik-baiknya.”</span></em></strong><strong style="color: #33353a;"><em><span lang="EN-US"> </span></em></strong><span lang="EN-US">[Surah At-Tin : 4]</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Penciptaan jantung umpamanya, yang tidak pernah berhenti berdegup, yang mempunyai kawalan aktiviti elektrik secara sendiri, tumbesaran bayi dalam kandungan, fungsi otak, berbillion sel dalam tubuh badan, adakah itu tidak memberikan kita suatu perasaan bahawa betapa kompleksnya penciptaan manusia, dan betapa hebatnya pencipta manusia?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><em><span lang="EN-US">“Kami akan perlihatkan kepada mereka tanda-tanda kekuasaan Kami di segenap penjuru alam dan pada diri mereka sendiri, sehingga ternyata jelas kepada mereka bahawa Al-Quran adalah benar.” </span></em><span lang="EN-US">[Surah Fussilat: 53]</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Doktor juga adalah saksi kepada 1001 penyakit yang ditimpa manusia. 1001 ujian yang Allah timpakan kepada manusia melalui penyakit dan kemalangan, cukuplah untuk mengajar kita supaya mensyukuri nikmat tubuh badan dan kesihatan yang selalu kita lupa. Penyakit, pesakit dan kematian yang kita jumpa pada setiap hari adalah peringatan langsung dari Allah untuk seorang doktor perubatan bahawasanya hidup ini adalah sementara dan nikmat yang Allah beri kepada kita boleh ditarik semula pada bila-bila masa dan ketika.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><em><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black;">“Dua nikmat yang selalu dipersiakan manusia, nikmat sihat dan nikmat kelapangan masa.”</span><span lang="EN-US"> </span></em><span lang="EN-US">[Riwayat Bukhari]</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Sahabat-sahabat yang dirahmati Allah,</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Tujuan asal perubatan dan rawatan itu sendiri adalah untuk menghilangkan kesulitan dan penderitaan pesakit dan memastikan pesakit itu dalam keadaan kesihatan yang baik sama ada secara fizikal, mental, sosial, mahupun spiritual.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Itu adalah prinsip asas perubatan. Tidakkah ini selari dengan seruan Islam itu sendiri bahawa sebaik-baik manusia adalah yang memanfaatkan manusia lain? Tidakkah memulihkan kesihatan orang lain itu sesuatu yang bermanfaat?</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Dari Ibnu Umar bahwa seorang lelaki mendatangi Nabi saw dan berkata, “Wahai Rasulullah, siapakah orang yang paling diicintai Allah ? Dan amal apakah yang paling dicintai Allah?”</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Rasulullah menjawab, “Orang yang paling dicintai Allah adalah orang yang paling bermanfaat buat manusia dan amal yang paling dicintai Allah adalah kebahagiaan yang engkau masukkan ke dalam diri seorang muslim atau engkau menghilangkan suatu kesulitan atau engkau melunasi hutang atau menghilangkan kelaparan. Dan sesungguhnya aku berjalan bersama seorang saudaraku untuk (menunaikan) suatu keperluan lebih aku sukai daripada aku beri’tikaf di masjid ini—yaitu Masjid Madinah—selama satu bulan. Dan barangsiapa yang menghentikan amarahnya maka Allah akan menutupi kekurangannya dan barangsiapa menahan amarahnya padahal dirinya sanggup untuk melakukannya maka Allah akan memenuhi hatinya dengan harapan pada hari kiamat. Dan barangsiapa yang berjalan bersama saudaranya untuk (menunaikan) suatu keperluan sehingga tertunaikan (keperluan) itu maka Allah akan meneguhkan kakinya pada hari tergelincirnya kaki-kaki (hari perhitungan).” (Riwayat Thabrani)</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Hadis ini dihasankan oleh Syeikh Al-Albani.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Allah juga berfirman yang bermaksud :</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><em><span lang="EN-US"> “Dengan sebab (kisah pembunuhan kejam) yang demikian itu kami tetapkan atas Bani Israil, bahawasanya sesiapa yang membunuh seorang manusia dengan tiada alasan yang membolehkan membunuh orang itu, atau (kerana) melakukan kerosakan di muka bumi, maka seolah-olah dia telah membunuh manusia semuanya; dan sesiapa yang menjaga keselamatan hidup seorang manusia, maka seolah-olah dia telah menjaga keselamatan hidup manusia semuanya.” </span></em><span lang="EN-US">[Surah Al-Maidah : 32]</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Jika pesakit itu baik keadaan kesihatannya, dia mungkin boleh kembali bekerja, boleh kembali menyara keluarganya. Dia juga mungkin boleh kembali dalam keadaan normal dan bahagia untuk meluangkan masa bersama keluarganya. Jika dia seorang ibu yang melahirkan anak, maka kita telah membantunya mempunyai cahaya mata. Jika dia seorang muslim, maka dia boleh kembali beribadah dengan sempurna.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Lihatlah betapa besarnya manfaat merawat manusia.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Sahabat-sahabat yang dirahmati Allah,</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> Doktor perubatan merupakan antara kerjaya yang manusia selalunya akan percaya apa yang dikatakan kepada mereka. Doktor perubatan juga adalah antara kerjaya yang ramai manusia berhajat untuk berjumpa, dan mengharapkan bantuan darinya.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Keperluan doktor perubatan dalam masyarakat juga adalah sangat kritikal, maka sebab itu mereka yang melanjutkan pengajian dalam bidang perubatan dijamin kerja oleh kerajaan kerana kurangnya bilangan doktor dalam masyarakat.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Emosi dan spiritual manusia juga secara fitrahnya akan menjadi sangat rapuh dan lemah ketika menghadapi dugaan dan ujian. Jadi dalam keadaan ini, sebarang nasihat yang baik secara kebiasaanya akan mudah diterima.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Maka adalah menjadi tanggungjawab seorang doktor muslim untuk kita menggunakan kesempatan yang ada ini untuk menyebarluaskan lagi risalah dan kefahaman tentang Islam sama ada kepada pesakit muslim atau pun bukan muslim.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><em><span lang="EN-US">“Demi masa. Sesungguhnya manusia itu dalam kerugian. Kecuali orang-orang yang beriman dan beramal soleh dan berpesan (nasihat menasihati) dengan kebenaran dan berpesan dengan kesabaran.” </span></em><span lang="EN-US">[Surah Al-Asr : 1-3]</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Dakwah dan ajakan kita kepada pesakit tentang kefahaman Islam itu boleh dilakukan sama ada secara lisan mahupun secara perbuatan dan sikap yang baik yang terpamer pada diri kita sendiri. Sebahagian dari penyakit yang dihidapi oleh manusia itu berpunca dari kelekaan dan kesalahan manusia itu sendiri. Jadi, seorang doktor itu tidak boleh lari dari memberi peringatan kepada pesakit-pesakitnya agar mengubah tabiat buruk yang diamalkan oleh pesakit sebelum ini.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Sebagai contoh, merokok boleh menyebabkan kanser paru-paru, mengambil alkohol boleh menyebabkan kerosakan hati, seks rambang boleh menyebabkan AIDS dan sebagainya. Maka doktor haruslah mendepani mereka ini dan berusaha menyampaikan nasihat secara berhikmah agar mereka mengubah tabiat mereka untuk manfaat diri mereka.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><em><span lang="EN-US">“Serulah ke jalan Tuhanmu (wahai Muhammad) dengan hikmat kebijaksanaan dan nasihat pengajaran yang baik, dan berbahaslah dengan mereka (yang engkau serukan itu) dengan cara yang lebih baik sesungguhnya Tuhanmu Dialah jua yang lebih mengetahui akan orangyang sesat dari jalanNya, dan Dialah jua yang lebih mengetahui akan orang-orang yang mendapat hidayah pertunjuk.” </span></em><span lang="EN-US">[Surah An-Nahl : 125]</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Kesimpulannya, saya akan rumuskan apakah prinsip-prinsip asas yang perlu dipegang oleh seorang doktor bagi memastikan kerjayanya sebagai doktor perubatan bernilai ibadah.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1) Menginsafi penciptaan manusia sebagai sebaik-baik ciptaan, justeru menjadi saksi terdekat tentang kekuasaan Allah kepada tubuh badan manusia serta mendapat peringatan terus dari Allah tentang kematian dan penyakit.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">2) Berusaha memberikan manfaat yang paling optimum kepada pesakit dan menghilangkan kesulitannya, selari dengan saranan dalam hadis iaitu sebaik-baik manusia adalah yang memanfaatkan manusia lainnya.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">3) Mengambil peluang untuk meyampaikan dakwah, memberi nasihat serta peringatan agar pesakit mengubah gaya hidup kepada yang lebih baik selari dengan tuntutan Islam.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> <strong style="color: #33353a;">Ahmad Hidayat Hasni bin Mad Isa</strong> adalah Mahasiswa Perubatan tahun 5 di University of Science and Technology (JUST) Irbid, Jordan . Beliau merupakan mantan Presiden Persatuan Mahasiswa Malaysia Irbid (PERMAI) Jordan.</span></div>
Dr. Nur Farah Aisyahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00093158603827773505noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3073634217721481071.post-88424211010251588712012-12-09T03:29:00.001+02:002012-12-09T03:42:03.513+02:00The doctor of doctors: Ibn Sina<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">"I completed 21 major and 24 minor works on philosophy, theology, geometry, astronomy and alike!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Friends advise me to slow down and take life in moderation but that's not in my character, I prefer a short life with width to a narrow one. with length</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I dedicated my existence to improving men's life through health, prosperity and peace.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">A thousand years later, the world is in your hands! Take care of it! What you been doing with life?"</span></div>
Dr. Nur Farah Aisyahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00093158603827773505noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3073634217721481071.post-83198297665472018042012-12-05T20:58:00.000+02:002012-12-05T20:59:45.877+02:00Serius<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;">"Kalau sudah buat ketetapan untuk bercinta selepas kahwin, memang betul-betul nak contohi ikon-ikon yang bercinta lepas nikah, selepas lafaz sakinah, saat cinta bersejadah dan sebagainya, maka kenalah serius dan teguh dengan pendirian itu.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;">Jangan canang seluruh facebook tentang prinsip nak bercinta lepas nikah, tapi intai-intai juga, usha-usha juga. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;">Kekuatan sesuatu amalan itu pada niatnya, dan </span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;">juga pada keseriusan melaksanakannya. Bila dah ada azam, kena tawakkal sepenuhnya pada Allah. Yakinlah dengan tidak menggatal itu, Allah bagi calon yang baik. Yakinlah dengan tegas menjaga diri itu, Allah akan bagi calon yang baik.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />Walaupun selalu dengar orang sebut bercinta lepas nikah, tapi bukan semua orang berjaya merealisasikan cinta seperti itu.<br /><br />Mujahadah, tak semudah tika bermadah!"<br /><br />-myilham.com-</span></div>
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